“𝑇ℎ𝑒 ℎ𝑢𝑚𝑎𝑛 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑠𝑒𝑒𝑘𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑖𝑛𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑡𝑒
𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢𝑠𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑡𝑠 𝑡𝑜 𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑡.”

Xiaodi Wu

Jan 12, 20223 min read

Forgiveness

White Mountain, New Hampshire. October 2021. I am afraid that I am not able to write this article on forgiveness without “outing” my...

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Xiaodi Wu

Jan 12, 20224 min read

The Story of My Emigration, Its Loss and Gains, Disconnection and Strength

Antelope Canyon, August 2021. I found myself in a place where I needed to name who I was. --- Hugo Kamya 2011, I left home in China for...

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Xiaodi Wu

Jan 12, 20224 min read

Autonomy, Connection and Attachment

We want to feel we belong to ourselves and have profound connection with our partners. The mark of a solid flexible self is being able to...

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Xiaodi Wu

Jan 12, 20224 min read

Book Review: Parenting from the Inside Out by Daniel J. Siegel and Mary Hartzell

“Parenting from the Inside Out”[1] is a helpful handbook for perceptive parents who are willing to and may be able to raise their...

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Xiaodi Wu

Apr 1, 20203 min read

当爱情遇到现实 l 你分手的理由

2017年 98年的小丁高中毕业，抱着对未来无限的憧憬，来了美国。 89年的李小姐辞掉银行的工作，和前男友分手后，为了看更广阔的世界，也来到了美国。在更广阔的外边的世界，身边可以说话的人反而很少，你可能会和不同年龄，不同经历，不同家庭，甚至不同世界的人成为朝夕相处的人，总...

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Xiaodi Wu

Apr 1, 20204 min read

她和我最好的朋友在一起了 I 你分手的理由

“遇到她之前，我已经两年没有过心动的感觉了”，山杰说。山杰是我2019年初上课认识的，我们同组学习三个月时间。他开朗，搞笑，乐观，好脾气，是我们小组的开心果。我管他叫 "giant baby" 因为他像个小孩一样无忧无虑，没什么烦恼。 ...

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